“Dean absolutely hated fighting with Sam. He loathed it. It ate away at his insides like a metal spoon scooping out the soft flesh of a cantaloupe.”
You could put a disclaimer on your blog that unironically lists your various disprivileges, because you do have loads. But that would negate most of the things you are trying to say, wouldn’t it?
the whole laundry list thing bothers me in principle. i don’t like the assumption that a person should be able to look up your allegiance before making value judgments about your argument, and that’s what the privilege/oppression lists do. if you can’t tell who i am from my sidebar, you’ll have to talk to me to get my measure.
this is why i am so frequently mischaracterized as an MRA, a racist, an anti-transgender bigot, and all the other dumb shit that gets said—because no one wants to consider, they want to check items on a list and either give my argument a pass because i am oppressed or shut it down because i’m insufficiently miserable to make it. sure, i can fix the problem if i just display my credentials for anyone who comes looking. but i won’t do that, because fuck people who need my personal information before they can decide if they agree with me or not.
do you ever stop and realize that people probably discuss you from time to time when you arent around to witness it
not , even in a specifically positive or negative way just like
people mention you, or think of you, you occur to people sometimes
thats the most unnerving thing that i can think of, thats so weird, that i exist to people when im not even interacting with them
A while ago i was at a summer program taking a class in which the people were divided into two sections. I was talking to a friend in the other section who mentioned in passing that her group had apparently had a brief discussion about me. My reaction was pretty much as follows:
Her: Only a little.
Me: What did…you…talk…about…?
Her: How open you are about your sexuality.
Her: You know how you write about it and mention it sometimes casually like it’s not a big deal.
Her: We admire you.
I.. uh, I made a tumblr. I haven’t really figured out how to use it, so please enjoy this adorable picture I just took of one of my chicks in a teacup.
I’ll post a crochet pattern later I think
SHE IS SO CUTE
(this is michelle by the way. welcome to tumblr ;) )
If anyone was at the Zenkaikon cosplay ball and picked up from the floor a blue plastic bag of the type containing booklet/schedule, you may have taken mine by mistake. The reason this matters is that inside that bag was the first volume of the Tales of the Abyss spinoff manga. I just bought it today! It cost me $11. I miss it a lot. If you happen to have picked it up, please either contact the info desk at the con or respond to me on tumblr.
Thank you in advance for your help!
I feel a little bad for saying this especially since I haven’t even seen it yet but one thing I’m glad about wrt the winter soldier is Steve shipped with other people than Tony. More non-Steve/Tony => less Steve/Tony => more Bruce/Tony ????????
Baby Blagden pics.